Good morning and welcome to this club to which we all have been members some time or who knows if we are members of it right now. This is a club you become member, usually without notice and involuntary, when you meet a friend (it's more common among women) and in front of a coffee your friend explains you that (a fictitious case but very common) a week ago she met a man and after feeling an incredible chemistry between them (let apart the physical (play on words in Spanish) which is a matter only of their concern jajaja) in their first date Mr. Right has dissapeared with no trace. She has went round and round that date trying to think what went wrong to give an explanation to the silent telephone. And in a specific moment of the conversation between your friend and you she asks you the feared question: what would you do?. In that moment you, the asked part, try to make the most of your experience in life and about that particular topic and you say to yourself: but what am I going to tell her? I've done that kind of things or worse! jajaja.
I'm sure that we all have told ourselves in any moment in our single lives that we wouldn't do this or we wouldn't do that but when the moment arrives. Ayyy when the moment arrives…..we do it, of course we do it! jajajaj. Therefore how are we going to pretend being wiser than our friend and give advice if when it's our turn we wouldn't follow our own advices? Which is your experience about this matter?. Hugs!